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Planning from replies: RSVP and headcount

Too little food embarrasses a host and too much wastes money. A simple count and a margin handle both.

Count each reply type

Make a small table: yes, maybe, no, no reply. For each yes, count the number of people who said they would come, not the number of replies.

A rule of thumb for the margin

Take all the yes replies and add a share of the maybes and the no-replies, based on what you know about your group. For a community event many hosts plan for a few more than the yes count; for a paid class the paid count is exact. Keep notes from each event so that next time you can use your own numbers.

Chase politely

Hello [name], we are finalising numbers for [event] on [date]. Could you please tell us by [date] if you will come? Thank you!

Planning from the count

For food, plan portions for the count plus margin, and keep a little extra of what is cheap. For seats, set out the yes count and keep spare chairs stacked. For a class, keep a short waiting list for the day someone drops out.

On the day

Keep a list at the door, and note who came. After the event, compare the count with the replies, and write it down for the next one. The RSVP form collects replies in the same shape from everyone.

Common questions

What if more people come than replied?

Welcome them and give them what you can. Keep a little extra of the easy things, and note it for next time.

Should I ask for money to reserve a place?

For paid events, yes. For free ones a reminder is enough; a deposit is rare.

Keep going

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